Fall in love with someone who wants you, who waits for you. Who understands you even in the madness; someone who helps you, and guides you, someone who is your support, your hope. Fall in love with someone who talks with you after a fight. Fall in love with someone who misses you and wants to be with you. Do not fall in love only with a body or with a face; or with the idea of being in love.
I think just loving someone is showing that you have the basic care for someone, but being in love is showing an unconditional love, and it’s beyond just “yeah, I care for this person”, or “I don’t want this person to get hurt”, the normal things. I don’t think one is better than the other, I think they both coincide with each other. I think you can’t be in love with someone without loving them first, so then you fall in love.